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Tuesday, December 26, 2006

I Can’t Believe Another Year

Every year after Christmas, days before the New Year I use to review myself what I had done for the year, see what goes right, what goes wrong , how I perform, did I felt right, did I dictate myself , did I being selfish and hurts others?. Later I normally put up a resolution for the next year.

My blog on New Years poem post I posted on 1st January this year title:-

“Every Cloud Has A Silver Lining!”

I wrote :-

“The path we walk was long, but we walk with a song.

There were fears and tears, but we also had reasons for cheers.

No matter how great the turbulence it gets!

We know that we will see it through!"

At that time my feeling some how was down due to my niece fighting her 3rd stage of cancer. She passes away this year July.

I was preparing for the pain, but somehow as the poem I wrote I found the cheers, understand and happy the reasons she live in this world although pass away in a young age.

I learn from this experience is important beginning of the year to resolute move forward rather than allow the external circumstance in control my life.

Beside my emotional state this year, what I regretted most is less time spend with my family, using making $ as lame excuses of no time. Although my daughter do well in her studies I should not take for grated she will be same next year. Next year more time with my family will be my main priority



This morning I receive an email on all good quotes.

Good for me one by one review myself how much I put on this year, than again set I mentally well for next year.

The email quotes I received:-


Gratitude opens the heart.

Among friends there are no good-byes.

We cannot always do great things in life, but we can do small things
with great love.

The organs weep the tears the eyes refuse to shed

The important thing is this; to be ready to sacrifice what you are for
what you could become.

A ship is safe in harbour - but that's not what ships are for.

What is to give light must endure burning.

Our prayers are always answered - it's just that God sometimes says no.

That you should find your happiness.

Dreams are where your realities are exchanged for infinite
possibilities.


When all is said and done - more is said than done.


Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.


We may give without loving, but we cannot love without giving.

Faults are thick when love is thin.




I will fully make use this few days, recharge myself, ready again for next year, after all we should enjoy for journey in life.


One of my wishes for year 2007, SCB fully recover.

Happy Boxing Days and " HaPPy New YeAr

.

13 comments:

titoki said...

I know, you know, everyone knows that we should spend more time with our own family members. Abuthen, how many of us can really do it ler? All oso can talk but no action one...

And then some even tell me that friends are more important than family. Sigh...

I sincerely pity their kids, parents and siblings.

The passing of your niece, SCB's coma, my dad's cancer, my mom's stroke and many-many more people's sufferings around me have made me realised that life is indeed fragile.

I might have the luxury to complain my dad's cookings sux today, but I may not have the same luxury tomorrow...

Wuching said...

happy new year!

AceOne said...

I pray for the health of every body and world peace. Happy New Year 2007.

sun,moon&star said...

Let's pray for a better year ... peace and harmony for all mankind. Happy New Year!
Moon

angel said...

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year, 9393...

ah nel said...

Happy New Year godfather... ;)

ah pek said...

You are always thinking of others. For this new year, go reward yourself . You are the most thoughtful blogger in the sphere!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR, 9393,

may the pig grant your every wish!!

Bengbeng said...

Happy New Year.

It is difficult some times to find time to spend with the family but we all try our best :)

King's wife said...

Happy New Year to you, 9393!
Here's to a better 2007!

Cocka Doodle said...

waaa...so 9 chiong hei wan this post.
You have been selfish to me in my books.You should spend more time drinking with me. LOL

Wishing you and your loved ones a blessed 2007!

Nine3 Nine 3 said...

Thank You All Very Much and Happy New Year To You all TOO !!!

Titoki-
Even you Sor Sor in your Blog I can felt you a very homely and nice girl.I'm saying from my heart not because you praise me.
I wish you all the Best in Year 2007 and keep writing good post yeah

simmie said...

Happy New Year!

ps. Thanks for scb's update!

yenchiew said...

hello :)
very enlightening read you've got here..
happy new year to you :)
hope its not too late for that wish..