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Sunday, June 11, 2006

My niece pass away peacefully

She had to go, she need a good rest, she being battling her cancer for the past 10 months, she fought well, everyone believe she had archive absolute victory, she had touch thousand of people with her courage. My niece passed away peacefully on the 10th of June evening in NZ

But I’m late, what the point having $$$ deal where my love one can’t wait for me and have to go. So close yet so far away. Just 1 more day. Why can’t I go 2 days ago to see her????....why??..just because $$$? I won’t forgive myself for sure.
I am really shit uncle and useless.

21 comments:

King's wife said...

My deepest condolences...
May she rest in peace.

Don't be so hard on yourself. Like you said, she fought a good fight. And I'm sure you did your best for her. Take care...

Cocka Doodle said...

Sorry to hear that. Well, at least she is no longer suffering.
Don't blame yourself for not being there during her dying moments.
I think you have done a lot already, and I'm sure she could not have asked for a better uncle.

Take care, mate.

Wingz said...

my deepest condolences, be strong ... life goes on and dont be too hard on yourself ... I m sure your niece dont want you to blame yourself either.

take care brader!

may said...

so sorry to hear the news, my very deepest condolences to you. I know how much you cared for your niece, and I'm grateful that you had shared your joys and worries about her with the few of us.

there isn't anyone to blame, least of all you. you've done what you could, you've done your best. at least she's not suffering anymore. may she rest in peace.

Lin Peh said...

She may be gone but she'll never be forgotten.

Take care bruder.

With greatest sympathy,
Lin Peh

Wuching said...

my condolence..but don't blame urself..

5xmom ~chanlilian.net~ said...

Remember her as she is. The beautiful, big eyes, full of joy girl. Rest in peace, dear girl. And may your sis and all your family be strong at this. God bless.

JoMel said...

Dear gor gor, I only knew about this when I spoke to you this morning. As I have told you, she is no more suffering. You really should NOT blame yourself. You have your family here to care for as well. I am sure she understands that and I am sure she felt your love thousands of miles away as you have always been there for her in the past. When a person loves you, you will feel it, deep in your heart, no matter where the person is. So she knew. Be assured of that. Please, never put any blame on yourself ok. Take care and hope to see you soon. *WARM HUGS*

PinPin 彬彬 said...

Really sorry to hear about this... my deepest condolences.

Many things in life are uncertain and beyond our control. Losing a love one is especially painful, but regret is never the best way to deal with the grief. Remembering all the fond memories is. Be strong for your love ones is, whether they are with you or no longer around.

Take care my friend.

Ah Pek said...

my deepest and sincerest condolences.

How can you blame yourself? You are not God. Take it easy bradder.

She's Jess said...

My sincere and deepest condolonce to you desmond!

Don't get hard with yourself. I am sure you hav been a gd uncle to her. She just needed a good rest...

wombie said...

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

*hugs* Don't blame yourself.

Survon said...

It's certainly not your fault. No one wanted it this way and no one is to be blamed on this.

Really sorry to hear that...

Joyce said...

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your niece.
May she rest in peace.

Dont be hard on yourself,nobody can foresee uncertainties.

Take good care.

Nine3 Nine 3 said...

Dearest All,
THANK THANK THANK You ALL for the kind words

I have got over it, maybe because my niece amazing courge that really encourage me and teach me what the meaning of Life.
The Funeral ceremony will be this Saturday

Once again..really THANK YOU ALL and sorry for all the trouble

Zara's Mama said...

My condolences to you and her family.. Hope she rest in peace.

She's such a courageous woman who'd faught so hard. You have been a nice uncle too, don't be too hard on yourself.

dreamie said...

I am sorry to hear this sad news.
My deepest condolences.

She's Jess said...

Hey.. I am sure everyone agrees with me that you have gave us no troubles

kelly said...

was just checking on your blog, when i read this sad news. plse accept my deepest condolences. take care

5xmom ~chanlilian.net~ said...

Hope everything went beautifully, just like how she wanted - including Austin Power? :) Just a little note that all of you are in my thoughts today. Hugs.

Las montañas said...

Sorry to read about this. But she has gone to a much better place, so don't be sad.